once the dust has settled

Sunday, November 8, 2020

 


It's been a while since I wrote, perhaps a little self-indulgently, about my overwhelming battle with change, but I feel the dust is finally beginning to settle upon this little life of mine. I'm about to step into my third week working in my new (temporary) position and am getting my bearings together before my foundations shake a little more and I start my new-new job in November. It's been a hard few weeks, but they've been difficult in quite a gratifying way. Short term pain, long term gain kinda difficult. It makes the anxiety easier to live around, and I'm prioritising rest above all else rn. 

So we've been metaphorically sitting in this half-empty house for a couple of weeks, watching as temporary furniture is brought in and a patchwork of paint swatches appears on the walls. I still don't recognise most of what's here, and a lot of it doesn't bring me as much comfort as I'd like, but the foundations are solid. At work, I now have set hours and weeks and breaks which is something I didn't realise I needed so desperately. I have a structure which I can now build a life around. I have a schedule I can build a life around.

What do I fill it with? How do I spend these three hours each morning between waking and clocking in? Will I do yoga on my working days, or the days off? Where will I find contentment? Where will I find alone time? Where do I start? 

For once, I am not in a rush to answer these questions. I work, I see my Dad each Tuesday, I have therapy each Thursday. I see S as often as I can. I have mini projects kept to the tiniest scale as everything feels like a lot right now, but at least I'm working on something. I journal when I can, I read when I can. I watch a lot of television. I take a lot of baths. And I forgive myself when I do none of it. 

I follow the lead of the seasons. I am embracing autumn's every facet. I am beginning to fall into the rhythm of the moon. Good things are coming, and the promise of them excites instead of scares me. The blank page before me is beginning to excite rather than scare me. 

So, the dust is beginning to settle on this little life of mine. I sometimes lose sight of the light at the end of the tunnel, when said dust clouds my eyes and my mind. But I never lose sight of my own resilience, and that bitch has seen me through worse before now. 

Written 18th October 2020, when I had a little more hope inside of me than I do right now. Note to self: just because I can't feel it rn doesn't mean it's never existed. 

my november to do list

Thursday, November 5, 2020

 


And just like that, November descended upon us, bringing with it fur coat weather, Lockdown 2.0 and hopefully a new President of the United States. October was a chaotic lil month with potent full moons at it's beginning and end and I was maybe hoping for a more chilled November? Please, universe? 

Despite my initial overwhelm when I watched Prime Minister Boris Johnson announce our second national lockdown of the year, I fully back his decision and I'm glad that we're hunkering down in this second-to-last month of 2020. I'm using this time as breathing space, although I'm anxious that working through it is going to be it's own kind of nightmare (again). I've been feeling incredibly out of sorts for months now, and I'd like to rectify that before this year comes to an end. I want to step into January feeling somewhat refreshed and sure of myself (a feeling I can hardly remember) and I know that will only happen if I put in the ground work now. 

So. This is me pressing that 'reset' button good n hard. (Lucky him.)

My November to do list.

1. Try out 4 new recipes. 

2. Re-establish my morning routine.

3. Reply to messages within 24 hours of receiving them. (Guilty as charged.)

4. Finish off my Christmas shopping to at least 90%.

5. Brush up on my skincare knowledge - create flashcards and a bible to refer to. 

6. Document all of the insane vegan snacks I've discovered of late on Lunaswren. 

7. Paint Freckles, Mimikyu and Snoofy (my new Teddiursa plush) in watercolour. 

8. Add fairy lights and candles to every available surface in my bedroom. 

For the first time in a while, having this list written out in front of me is stirring some kind of life in me. Excitement? Motivation? A promising start!

october favourites

Sunday, November 1, 2020

 

Happy second-to-last month of the year, y'all! October felt like it passed in a blink, but the days themselves felt oddly long. I've been looking to comfort to get me through these past few weeks - as I'm sure we all do when new seasons and jobs come along - and I've managed to source it from many places. So in a bid to reclaim my 'happy' and embrace the smallest details of life, I thought it time I resurrect my most beloved of blog series: the monthly favourites. 

contraction // expansion

Monday, September 21, 2020

 


June. That's when I first felt it.

That odd and uncomfortable squeeze of the soul that preludes periods of expansion. The feeling, deep and unsettling, coiled itself around my feet, the way my cats often do, waiting for attention after I've told them off. I try not to notice. If I ignore it, it'll go away, and I won't need to pick the headless squirrel up off of my bedroom floor. 

Change is always dramatic for me. I'm sure I can blame this on some placement in my birth chart, the way I blame every tear that escapes my eyes on my beloved Pisces Moon, but in reality I know it's my own fear that makes it so. 

I sat in discomfort for months. The kind of discomfort that lodges itself deeply and resolutely in your soul. I felt off, wrong, uncomfortable in my body and in every word I said. I cried to S more often than I'd like to admit. I knew change was coming. And it will come, whether you're ready or not (I am very often not). I will delay it for so long that it grows teeth and comes to drag me out on its own. I fear the pain, the discomfort, the darkness of it all. I fear the loss of things and the gaping blank spaces those things will leave behind. They intimidate me. A blank canvas ready to be decorated before I've chosen the paints. And as I delay it so long, change becomes a purge so absolute that only the purest things for my heart remain and I'm left with very little. 

It's been a week or two since the ice in my lungs began to thaw, since I woke up in the morning not dreading the day ahead. And what's changed? Well. Quite a lot, actually. 

I've taken many steps towards many things that will be healthier for me, including an entirely new work environment that offers much more balance and routine. My obsession and anxiety over money is dwindling, although I'm gonna be taking that mess to my therapist. Ah yes! I'm going back to therapy. S and I have made a pact to try and clean up our diet after an indulgent Summer. My metaphorical plate has emptied as I give myself permission to scale back on plans and spend the time alone instead. I'm creating more than I have all year. My health and happiness are my main priority and I'm getting real about what actually elevates and depletes them both. 

There's still a lot I don't know. (Like what will fulfill me in life and how I find that out.) (Or how much I can sacrifice for a house deposit without restricting to the point of unhappiness.) But I think making my health and happiness important today will help me figure those things out tomorrow, and all the days beyond. Right?

How do you deal with change? 

soy in the summer

Thursday, September 10, 2020

 

Since y'all last hopped on a metaphorical sea plane to Soy, she has undergone the most drastic renovation. I don't think a single building is in the place it was when we last spoke all things New Horizons. We've been through Summer updates, I've received fraudulant art from my villagers, Luna dyed her hair pink for the Summer (which colour for Autumn tho?!) and I have a whole new roster of villager babies. Tie up the laces on your walking shoes, kids, we're off on a tour!

To the left of Resident Services, the inhabitants of Soy now have a tiny vintage market to explore on a Sunday morning. Bob's house is now directly behind this, along with an outdoor pizza restaurant, and it's on my list to finish! (I never finish anything. Chaotic-good energy come thru.) I'd like this area to look a little more cluttered in it's final form. Who knows - it'll probably swap places with the pizza restaurant by the time we next speak!

Moving Nook's Cranny early on in the season meant Melba had a few months to get used to her new garden. She loooves her rocking chair. 

I welcomed Lolly to Soy sometime in July, and she and Melba are now neighbours. They live one hop across the river away from Freckles and I - I love to have my favourite babies close by!

Speaking of Freckles and favourites - here she is in all of her glory. Is it possible to love an animated duck too much? Don't answer that.


I tweaked the picnic area early on in the season. It now sits prettily between my home and the clifftop palaces of Roscoe and Diana. It's very simple, with only a few furniture pieces, but I love how sweet it looks. 


The most dramatic change to Soy involved the relocation of darling Blath's museum and some experimentation with mini cliff formations. The museum now sits where Luna's home used to be and I reworked the entire landscape around it. This little bug study area is one of my favourite areas on Soy. I'm so thrilled with how it turned out! It's isolated from the island entrance through some nifty cliff work and sits just above one of our mini beaches, which is soon to be a fish study.


Luna and Samwise loved the Sunday evening fireworks displays. Aren't Luna's deely-boppers precious?! The area above (where Luna is gazing aesthetically into the distance) is Freckles's beach bar, complete with staff. The shell bed positioned behind it is momentarily acting as my Aphrodite altar until I can find the perfect settling place for her.


And here is where our tour concludes, dear friends! The campsite had been left untouched since it came into fruition this Spring but I always felt it looked 'okay enough' compared to other parts of the island. Once those spots had been prettied up, however, I felt it was time to give the campsite some tender lovin'. I added a campfire (complete with a fresh meal) and a bench bearing a painting set should the camper feel creatively moved by Soy's scenery. The ukulele is a cute touch - I'm keeping an eye out for a tambourine to join it!

Soy's first taste of summer has been such a delight. I loved the addition of diving - something we had early-on in New Leaf - and the Sunday evening firework displays. The summer shell DIYs have come in so handy when crafting my Aphrodite altar, too! I'm sad to say goodbye to it - to the vivid colours and flash storms and gladiator sandals. But Autumn is on its way, and then comes my favourite season to experience in the Animal Crossing realm!

july

Monday, August 3, 2020



I've been hestitant to write this post for a lil while now - I didn't want to look at the feelings and discomfort and frustration I felt during July (hello avoidant nature). I didn't feel like I did much, achieved much. I spent a lot of time feeling depleted and worried. I spent a LOT of time working on myself. I spent a lot of time helping someone close to me who wasn't feeling their best. But now that I'm reflecting, now I've scrolled through my camera roll and my @soyisland feed, I see that July wasn't so bad after all.

The month started off with a long overdue reunion. My oldest, dearest friend and I met up for lunch and a wander around Clifton one afternoon and it was lovely. We laughed, we walked a LOT, we tried our best to find somewhere cute and indie to eat but ended up in Spoons for chips and a burger. I also marvelled at the utter radiance of her, with her five-month-old bump! I have never seen a more goddess-like soon-to-be mama in my life. (I know she's reading this - love you T!)


We also saw new features drop in Animal Crossing: New Horizons on July 3rd! Luna invited Samwise over for a swimming date and subsequently spent most of her month diving for sea creatures and scallops.


I got some new lingerie! Monki's basics cotton bra is my holy grail. After spending months wearing uncomfortable and painful bras that didn't fit me, I finally gave in, took some money out of my savings, and refreshed my lingerie drawer. Going up a size is always a difficult thing for me, but I know that that's just the ED talking and we're bored of her and in love with new bras and that's that. This set is the Organic Cotton Bra & High-Waist Undies in 'blue skies' and I wear a size S in both. They're out of stock in that colour, but there are several variants! I also have the white and black and they're both divine.


Brighton Brighton Brighton. Quirky aesthetics galore. Beachy wanderings by day and RuPaul's Drag Race + New Horizons all night. The house was beautiful, the company more so and the whole vegan and indie scene of the place made my heart full. I wrote a city guide for the trip which you can check out here.


S and I both found the Brighton trip a little difficult mentally - we were both on the verge of burn out tbh - and we experienced what I call a 'mental health hangover' (ie the exhaustion and depletion that comes from feeling anxious for a prolonged period of time) that lasted a couple of weeks mid-end July. We battled through it as best we could but it took a while for us to feel back to normal. I started going for walks, we worked hard to balance our time better, we ate better and spent more time resting. We slowly but surely returned to ourselves.

We also spent a lot of time playing Last of Us II. I'm so invested but Christ Ellie makes some questionable decisions.


One of my non-Dreamie villagers told me she was leaving Soy midway through the month so I spent a couple of hours one morning scouting for a newbie. I ended up settling on Lolly who 1) is a cat and 2) shares my childhood nickname. In essence - she's perfect.


I forced myself to paint more this month - tying in with S and I's pact to make better use of our free time - and I'm quite content with the outcome of some of the pieces. I never really aim to finish anything, I just free paint and doodle and play around. I love mindlessly painting moons and flowers and leaves. It's so meditative. Once I work up my concentration levels I want to start painting Pokemon and Animal Crossing characters again! Who knows - maybe I'll even bring back my painterly monthly favourites!


S and I took a trip to Bath one morning before I started my evening shift. It was lovely. You can check out some more photos and ramblings here if these have whet your appetite for pretty architecture.


Soy underwent some serious reconstruction last month! I've been trying to style up specific 'zones' one at a time but my chaotic-good energy can't commit to that so everywhere is kinda half-finished. Lots of 'still in progress' Instagram captions were written for @soyisland let's put it that way. One of my new favourite little areas is this floral-pond-waterfall situation right below Nook's Cranny. Freckles loves it. Almost as much as I love her.

What else happened in July... ah! I spent a solid couple of hours with my best gals J, M and E one incredibly warm afternoon and we have the cutest pics to show for it. I bought Ring Fit and am committed to making it a regular habit. I need work outs that are fun and distracting enough that I don't realise I'm exercising... so far, Ring Fit is doing the trick. (I say this. I've played it once.) I've also been learning the chorus choreography to Kill This Love by Black Pink which is exhausting and fast and so fun.

As for my hopes for August... Well, a little R&R never hurt nobody! I want to keep resting, keep balancing, keep working on myself. I want to build better routine and schedule in my hobbies. I want to practice discipline each time I start to doubt myself and retract. I want to create the things my soul is begging me to. I'm going to work through the resistance until it feels effortless to let the paint and ink and words to flow out of me.

My word for August is discipline. What's yours?

a few hours in bath

Thursday, July 23, 2020




It had been weeks since our schedules matched up. We'd catch each other for a few hours here and there: a cheeky Chinese on a Monday night when I finished at 8pm, a thirty-minute walk to the river together before he started at 2pm, two episodes of Drag Race before I started once again. But our days off were - and still are - rare. So when one of his correlated with me working the night shift, I knew we had to ~ seize the day ~.  

We ended up on the next train to Bath, and spent a few hours wandering.



Bath is a quaint little city on the edge of Bristol, just 11 minutes away by train. I've visited a handful of times within the past few years but its beauty always strikes me - the greenery, the beautiful pale architecture, the dainty shops filled with quirks, the wide, rushing waterfalls. 



There's so much culture and history in Bath - it's full of independent eateries and museums and galleries. The Roman Baths are it's namesake, and I've heard it's worth the entry fee. Bath Abbey is towering and beautiful. The Jane Austen Centre is a mini museum dedicated to her life and writings. There's a charity shop on every corner - or so it feels like. It's somewhere so close to home that I didn't think to explore as a tourist, but the next time I go back I'm going to have a loose itinerary in hand!



The little cobbled alleys and tall houses reminded me of Cambridge in a lot of ways. 



The Roman Baths and Bath Abbey are cosy neighbours, although we didn't head into either that day. The good thing about this little city is how tightly-knit all of the iconic monuments are. You can easily hit everything within an afternoon.



It's so interesting to me that this same river - the River Avon - sweeps through my own home city as well. Good to see you away from home, boo! The view is quite iconic - you may recognise it from Les Miserables. 



This little trip was the exact break from the daily norm that I needed. I want to take advantage of my time like this more often - I tend to waste my day when I'm working the close at work, but a few hours out with my love did me so good that the tiredness the next day was worth it. 

quarterly goals | episode three

Thursday, July 16, 2020



I've been feeling very disillusioned with time lately, as I'm sure many of us have throughout this bizarre other-world year of 2020. Telling me we're in the third quarter of the year both makes total and no sense to me. As the prophets say, time very much is an illusion but it's one I rather like and I'd like to keep hold of it thank u! My bullet journal has been invaluable in terms of helping me keep an eye on myself and my life but I feel it's time to kick it up a gear and commit to it in a way I haven't for many years.

We've all collectively been going through such a traumatic and revolutionary period that goals seem both pointless and vital. I've been a little misguided in the way I've been approaching my goals these past six months, something I completely understand and forgive myself for, but something I feel the need to refine now. It's been hard to pinpoint what I can aim for when everything around me is changing so rapidly. And instead of pulling myself further inwards and breaking big goals down into now-focused mini goals, I've been writing the whole thing off. Again, I completely understand and forgive myself for this. But now that I'm in a better place, I can use hindsight to project myself forwards. 

Something which has helped a LOT in navigating my goals is Sighh's 'The Shit List' desk pad. My main goals in life currently are moving out and earning a promotion, and I found myself growing more and more frustrated by how large and seemingly impossible they were. They qualified for the shit list, that's for sure! Now that I've sat down and broken these goals down minutely, I see what can be achieved in the present. Before we get stuck into what I'm aiming for from now until October 1st, let's see what I hoped to achieve by July 1st!

Quarterly goals, episode two:
Deadline: July 1st 2020

 £2,000 in savings. Absolutely nailed it. Making small adjustments to my budget overall has worked very well in my favour, both weekly and monthly.
 Construct 2 bridges, an incline and upgrade my house on AC:NH. Another biiiig tick! Soy is currently undergoing a huge revamp (when isn't it tho) and these new features have added a lot of interest and dimension to my beloved isle.
 Sort out the wall behind my bed. I'm halfway there! I just need to remove the old nails and insert others where I want my new gallery wall to be.
 Complete my crystal healing diploma. Will I ever finish this?! I completed a few modules in June but I'm still only 24% of the way through. I'm finding it hard to balance everything, so I may demote this to a 'complete one module per month' goal.
 Finish 3 art projects. In future I'm going to change this to 'have 3 creative sessions' because I rarely complete bigger projects in one sitting and it's so hard to define what qualifies as a 'project'. I painted a few Animal Crossing villagers for my favourite people, but does that count as one project, or two? Does a blog post count? Too many questions, not enough answers.
 Read 4 books. A big nope! I finished two books in April and haven't picked up anything since! Again, a balancing act that didn't tip in my favour.

Quarterly goals, episode three:
Deadline: October 1st 2020

 Have £2,800 in savings.
 Pay off my Argos card completely.
 Re-do my work bible and earn a new skill/responsibility.
 Sort the wall behind my bed and finish S's bedside table.
 Enjoy 6 creative sessions.
 Post weekly on @soyisland and here on Lunaswren.

Beyond these pretty babies, I'm going to start creating monthly to do lists for myself to tie in and hopefully encourage completion for every point! I know in my heart that each of these goals are going to greatly improve my life and overall well-being. They're important! It's okay for me to treat them as such! I intend to use my bullet journal to keep track of everything, as it's such an invaluable tool that I don't take advantage of as much as I should. Up the revolution!!

city guide: brighton during lockdown

Monday, July 13, 2020



Lovely Brighton. S's second favourite city, only just behind our hometown of Bristol.

We wondered for the longest time if this trip would even go ahead - and if it did, what measures we'd put in place to make sure we were doing it as safely and responsibly as possible. 2020 life is certainly pulling up some questions and moral debates I didn't expect, that's for sure! Luckily the lockdown measures were relaxed just in the nick of time and our Airbnb host assured us of their new deep cleaning procedure, plus we knew we'd be driving down and we were each others support bubbles anyway so it seemed silly to not take advantage of the trip we'd booked in January! So last Thursday S and I bundled into the car with two of our closest friends and began the three hour journey down to Brighton.

WHERE WE STAYED

We stayed in Maya's spacious home which was so beautifully decorated and had stunning views at its rear. It's situated in a quiet residential area - I think we saw only 2 other people in the street across the 4 days! - with a bus stop and a corner shop at the end of the road. The nearest supermarkets are Sainsburys and Aldi which are both within a few minutes on the bus. It was spacious, catered to our every need and has reaffirmed to me how vital nice decor is to my well-being. The house is a little further out than I would have liked, but the centre was so easy to access via bus that it worked out okay. We caught the bus to London Road each day which took 10 minutes and wandered from there into the centre as there are so many indie shops along the way!


The house boasts three bedrooms, a large living space, a dining room complete with a fully-stocked bookcase and a well equipped kitchen including a dishwasher and washing machine.


S and I's room was the smallest double, complete with a triple wardrobe and a cute built-in dressing table. The decor was all soft pastels and white and completely suited to my taste! The bed was slightly uncomfortable and we only had one pillow each (!) but as we were walking so much throughout the day I was able to sleep well. Each morning I journaled in bed, got ready at the dressing table and then went downstairs for breakfast in the dining room with S and it was lovely.

WHAT WE DID 

On our first day, once we'd unpacked and been to the supermarket, we drove down to London Road car park and headed out to try to get a grip on the place. But if you've been to Brighton, I'm sure you'll agree it's impossible to get a grip on The Laines the first (or second or third) time around! S had been to Brighton multiple times before so he acted as a tour-guide of sorts, although by the second day I began to recognise things enough to know roughly where we were. Whilst we were there the museums and libraries were still closed, so we mainly relied on shopping and landmarks to occupy us.


We kept our masks on whenever we could whilst out and slathered hand sanitiser over ourselves routinely. Shops and cafes and bars were also very proactive when it came to sanitising, and multiple stores were very direct in asking us to do it upon entering. We also headed out early each day to try and avoid the midday rush - weirdly, Friday was the busiest, especially in the Laines!

SNOOPER'S PARADISE


I couldn't not visit Snoopers Paradise after hearing about it on Marzia's Instagram and YouTube channel for so many years. It was actually my favourite part of the trip - throw me into an (un)organised mess of vintage and antique and secondhand goodies and I'll be kept happy for hours.


Everything you can think of was in there. It was some bizarre, less chaotic, real-world version of the Room of Requirement. It's exactly the type of store I'd own in Diagon Alley. There were doll legs, crystal rings and top hats. There were vintage issues of Playboy, pink satin slip dresses and gold-plated hand mirrors. There were glass bottles of every colour and size, tins for every craft item my mother has ever owned and books upon books upon books. There were single kodak photos on film, postcards to-and-from a grandmother and granddaughter and stacks of black-and-white photographs.


I had the most wonderful time, and it would be the sole reason for my return if I ever headed back down to the coast.

RECORD SHOPS GALORE


If there's one thing S loves more than myself and Bristol City (in that order), it's vinyl records. The place he spent the most money was Resident, which happened to be dead opposite Snoopers Paradise and it was there he took solace when I visited Snoopers for the third time within two days... Resident was given a lil shoutout on Instagram by S's favourite Liam Gallagher so naturally my boi needed to visit. One of his favourite bands had released an album on the second day of our trip, so he picked up the limited edition tri-colour vinyl, alongside a Gerry Cinnamon album, and the Frank Turner Songbook for £14 from a different store.

BRIGHTON BEACH + PIER


As soon as I see the sea ya girl is gone. When you find me I'll be ankle deep in the ocean, letting the salty air cleanse my energy, taking the deepest breaths I'll have taken in days. Despite being an air sign (and unable to swim lol) I'm a water baby at heart and I feel most at peace near large bodies of water - the sea being my favourite.


Whilst the others lounged on the pebbles I stood in the sea a while, then spent some time hunting for shells and pretty pebbles before returning to the arms of my love. Being held by your truest love on the beach with the sea waves as a soundtrack is 10/10 recommended by me, friends. Once we'd lounged enough (and the pebbles became unbearably uncomfortable) we headed up onto the pier for a wander. I didn't touch anything in the arcade because although there was hand sanitiser dotted through-out and there was a body limit, it was chaotic af in there!

BRIGHTON PAVILION


The most iconic thing spoken on the trip was when S, on Saturday morning, took one look at the art print of the Brighton Pavilion framed in our bedroom and said "why is the Taj Mahal in here?"


Now I have not seen the Taj Mahal in person, so I cannot speak for it's own grandeur and beauty, but the Brighton Pavilion is very pretty, although it does look like it's made out of marzipan. It's much smaller than I was expecting - likewise the gardens themselves - but it is still very statuesque. I've never seen anything like it before and my culture-deprived brain was soaking it up after months of being indoors. If I ignored the lashings of scaffolding all over the thing, it was quite a marvel. The Brighton museum and art gallery is on the same site, but was closed at the time of my visit.

ANIMAL CROSSING + RU PAUL'S DRAG RACE


Each day we caught the bus home between 3pm and 4pm and we'd come back, get changed and all of us would slump onto the corner sofa to play Animal Crossing: New Horizons and watch RuPaul's Drag Race. S and I are utterly obsessed with Drag Race at the moment - my favourite queens being Bianca Del Rio, Kimchi, Valentina, Trinity the Tuck and Shea Coulee - and it was a delight to introduce J and M to it also. It was also a delight for them to see just how bitchy my boyfriend can be, because his beautiful face and reserved demeanor gives people a misguided impression of innocence.

WHAT WE ATE

THE VURGER CO


As the gang member with the largest amount of food intolerances, it was mainly my decision where we ate each day. We made an agreement to only eat lunch out, which worked out time and finance-wise, and I was glad to sample the newest vegan establishment in Brighton! We were actually the very first walk-in customers and the staff's enthusiasm was infectious. The Vurger Co also boasts branches in London and I can only imagine how popular it's going to be in Brighton. The decor was beautiful and aesthetic - all pale pinks and yellows with white tiles and neons - and the menu was short but sweet enough that we all found something we liked the look of.

S got the New York Melt burger which was smothered in two types of vegan cheese, home-made burger sauce and tomatoes. He absolutely demolished it and compared it to the renowned Oowee vegan burgers. I got the Caesar Salad which featured vegan chicken pieces, garlic bread croutons, coconut bacon bites and parmesan. I didn't like the salad dressing so I didn't finish mine - although S claimed it was delicious and finished it for me! We both got a side of sweet potato fries which were cooked perfectly.

BOHO GELATO


Another YouTuber influence...! We were wandering the Laines on the way to the sea front when we stumbled across Boho Gelato and I immediately went in. Their flavours change daily but there were multiple vegan options to choose from. I went for the chocolate and caramel peanut scooped onto a chocolate dipped cone and it was utterly divine. The scoop was so huge I needed help finishing! (I also wanted faster access to the cone which, as I'm sure we can all agree, is the best part of an ice cream.) S went for a mint Coke float which he loved!

BEAN TOASTIES



This is not a Brighton-exclusive, I just wanted to brag about how good the bean and cheese toasties I make for S look.


I wasn't the biggest fan of Brighton overall but it was a much needed trip away with some of my favourite people. If you're looking to visit Brighton, the things at the tip-top of my recommendations list are Snoopers Paradise, Family Store, Boho Gelato and The Vurger Co!